Love
Found this on friendster bulletin...cant remember who posted it...but thought it was interesting
Love is hard to forget.Its like a memory burned into your skin and youare constantly reminded of it when you see thescar.Its hard to move on because you love them morethan anything and knowing that they dont love youmakes you want them even more.so,DONT LOVE.......if u cannot keep loving urbeloved 1 4ever.....i was thinking.....i get the whole beginning part of it....i know how hard it is to forget...no matter how hard u try.......i still cant to be honest.........and i get the loving them more than anything part as well....
but what i dont get is the dont love part.......
sure it will be hard to love again for quite sometime after going through a heartbreak...esp if it was a bad one.....and u really did love that person a lot.......but to say dont love....wouldnt that be just closing off all ur options....what if that person u loved b4 wasnt the perfect person for u..... maybe u were meant for someone else....and what if that someone does come along n u miss him/her cus u just didnt want to love agn..... im not saying that the one u lost cant be the perfect one for u....but if it is so... if it was meant to be, maybe sometime in the future u will get back together with that person....
guess i feel like there is no point stopping ur life or putting it on hold for someone....if things were meant to be ......then it will happen in due course....one can ever predict whats in store for us in the future whether near or distant....we may be back with that lost love or with someone new...who knows....
DONT LOVE.......if u cannot keep loving urbeloved 1 4ever.....and i guess it isnt fair to say that as well.....the human mind and heart is soo unpredictable even to ourselves...thoughts , feelings, actions they all can change in a heartbeat before we realise how it happened or when it happened.....
theres a saying...we cant help who we fall in love with....which i dont deny.....
guess we just have to hope that we fall for the right person in the end n have not lost the right one somewhere along the line....
so guess bottom line is ...hope is all we have for the future...what will happen in reality is unpredictable
The End